#181: Is Righteous Victimhood Limiting Your Choices?
Today we’re talking about righteous victimhood - the mindset where you’re more focused on what’s unfair than on what you can do next (and end up justifying inaction).
And real quick - You might actually be right about the unfairness. That’s not the problem.
The problem is when staying right starts costing you your agency, your options, and your self-trust.
Here’s where we go today:
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What “righteous victimhood” actually means in decision-making
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The signs you’ve shifted from self-compassion into stuckness
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The difference between validating your pain and defending your limitations
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The three practical shifts that move you out of stuck and back into agency
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Why you don’t have to choose between being right and being happy
If you’ve been stuck replaying what should be different, and you’re tired of feeling justified but not empowered - this is for you.
This episode will help you reclaim control, without gaslighting yourself about what’s hard.
👉 Links!
- NEW TRAINING: Stop Second-Guessing: The step-by-step method to get out of post-decision panic and move forward with confidence - without needing proof you “chose right.”
- Join the Decision Ease Program to get the full Decision Ease Framework to make easier, aligned choices
- Free guide: 5 Things Clear-headed Decision Makers Get Right
